Just checking the colour of the grass...

[Kaylee]

BUT we steer it back instead of deleting posts and banning members.

Exactly! That's the #1 reason I'm here instead of there. 

...though I am going to make a few posts there purely because I have a couple of questions that there isn't enough experience with here.

Instead of "cheap", we're frugal.
i.e. more fully functioning adults, and I'm pretty sure a massively higher percentage here would pass the Marshmallow Test.

(not counting Cammalu's raccoons, of course)