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[Texjbird]

I would like to see some more controlled growth

  How do you see this ^^^^^ working?

I'm more of a vine and twine upward, or let run rampant and see where things grow before takin' a hoe to em. 
The struggle for life often amazes me and not just in the plant kingdom.
Things popping up that I didn't plant I wait and see what they will become before I decide what to do about them.

The angriest times I've gotten on forums has been threads and or posts of mine deleted or closed because " In the past similar threads or posts have caused anger/hard feelings/ or been disruptive ".  I don't doubt that.  I just think sometimes people can change their minds or have something to say that needs to be heard about something that "might have been upsetting in the past" or even from things they have experienced.  So a disruptive thread or post might have some value.  Hey they might not even become disruptive......some might remain civil. 

  Sooooo glad I don't have to make these decisions.

I survived a truck spin and  flip on black ice and walked away and drove the truck home after being towed and having my mechanic checking it over completely.  That scared the crap outta me  <<< my hair did this.  Do I want a repeat of this...NO!  Will I approach with more caution after having this experience and learning from it......Yeah Buddy.  If there had been road blocks = maybe no accident = maybe no 1st hand experience = I might not be so lucky if there is a next time.

I'm sorry......What was the topic?

JewellAnn