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[Anna]

Great call and proud of you! So many stay and be the "good wife". The act to me is less important than breaking one's word. You make a promise to be monogamous and as such, you should never break it. If that is part of marriage promises for some it is not.

All a person has is their word and their balls (ladies included). I don't break either for anyone! (Tony Montana).

If you say it do it. Even the little stuff, the shit that doesn't really matter.

Scott, Thank you.
I'm one for keeping my word and promises unless ofcourse something happens and it can't be kept. To which i try to rectify and or explain. I guess that's why i'm always feeling let down by others who make promises to me because to most people saying something which they don't mean comes naturally and they don't intend to action it. hence why i'm very weary of people and not so trusting, I guess people have to prove themselves to me especially now.

Regarding my current relationship, It's taken me 25 years to finally find my soulmate and partner in life and though I have many regrets of not finding him and marrying him sooner so as to actually have a family and kids of our own. I'm finally very happy now and very much settled down.