The manual switch is all about the human error factor.
I actually use switches, but I only have one battery a tthe moment so the switch need not ever be moved. but when I did have a house battery, i would prefer to start engine on engine battery, turn switch to BOTH while engine is trunning and switch ignition circuit back to Engine battery when OFF.
It is one reason I do not want to go back to a dual battery system. It would be different if my switch was easier to reach, but it is basically behind my drivers seat in the cabinet, and turning the switch to OFF, might blow out the diodes in my alternator.
There are many dozens of ways to isolate a house battery from engine battery with engine off, and many dozens of products. The simple solenoid is one of the most effective and cheapest. The only issue is finding the ideal trigger circuit, and tapping it cleanly.
But most Unideal trigger circuits are also effective, they just cause the solenoid to cycle on and off more with the key turned to on and might allow the house to assist engine battery in starting. This might even seem beneficial with few detractions, at least until the contacts on the solenoid become worn and develop more resistance.
Here is the simple way to do it requiring no Trigger circuit. It simply connects the boatteries when the engine battery sees charging voltages.
https://www.amazon.com/Bussmann-RB-BS-13...oding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B00KD0KC1E&pd_rd_r=R7HFXBVG13Y2M9KFCFFV&pd_rd_w=xdEGZ&pd_rd_wg=cx4Oo&psc=1&refRID=R7HFXBVG13Y2M9KFCFFV
Downside with this product, is with solar, when the engine is turned off, the solar can keep voltage above the threshold, and some solar wattage will be going to engine battery, instead of all wattage going into house battery. How much of a difference this makes depends on the depth of discharge of both batteries. Some of that solar wattage mig t also be used simply to hold the contacts in the solenoid together. This might be as high as 15 watts just to hold solenoid closed and even an fully charged engien battery might require 15 watts to be held at absorption voltage. So that could be 30 watts of solar going into house battery, that is not.
note above product is Unidirectional, meaning it parallels batteries when one side sees charging voltages. they sell bidirectional solenoids that parallel when either battery sees charging voltages.
Some might find the engine battery being charged by solar to be a good thing. I am not of that opinion, when the house battery is depleted. When depleted I want all Solar wattage getting the house battery to Absorption voltage ASAP, and for as long as required. Diverting any of this wattage to engine battery, or simply used to hold solenoid closed, might/can/will hinder the achieving of house battery full charge before sundown, and achieving full recharge before next discharge begins is the key to very good+ battery longevity.
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